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What a Faith-Based Women's Halfway House Actually Looks Like

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Women preparing lunch together in the kitchen of a faith-based residential recovery home

If you've been searching for a women's halfway house, you've probably noticed that the results all start to blur together. Every listing promises a safe, supportive environment. Very few tell you what an ordinary Tuesday actually looks like, who's in the house at night, or what happens when you walk through the door on day one.

We think you deserve a clear picture before you pick up the phone, so this post walks through real life inside Through the Gate, a Christian residential recovery home for women in Crawfordsville, Indiana. We'll also explain an important difference between a traditional halfway house and what we do, because it matters when you're deciding where to go.


In this post

•      Halfway house or residential recovery home: what's the difference?

•      The house itself

•      A typical weekday

•      Evenings, weekends, and Sundays

•      Who is in the house

•      The first 90 days

•      What makes it faith-based

•      Cost and who can come

•      After graduation

•      Frequently asked questions


Women's Halfway House or Residential Recovery Home: What's the Difference?

Most people use "halfway house" to mean any kind of sober group home, and that's a fair starting point. But in the traditional sense, a halfway house is a step between treatment (or incarceration) and independent life. Residents usually hold outside jobs, pay rent, come and go during the day, and follow house rules like curfews and drug testing.

Through the Gate works differently. We are a residential recovery home for women, which means the program itself is the focus of your day. There's no outside job to juggle. Instead, you spend at least eight months living in a structured Christian home, where your time is built around Scripture, counseling, and learning to live in community.

 

Typical halfway house

Through the Gate

Main purpose

Transitional housing after treatment

A full residential recovery program

Outside job

Usually required

Not permitted during the program

Daily structure

Mostly self-directed

Devotions, classwork, and shared chores each day

Length of stay

Varies widely

At least 8 months, longer if needed

Counseling

Often arranged elsewhere, if at all

Biblical counseling is built into the program

 

If you're a little further along and looking mainly for a place to live, our post on recovery housing for women covers that side of things.


The House Itself

Through the Gate is a large home, about 6,000 square feet, but it's set up like a family house, not an institution. There's a living room to gather in, a dining room where everyone shares meals, and a kitchen where a lot of life happens. With 12 beds, the household stays small enough that every woman is known by name, missed when she's struggling, and noticed when she grows. Nobody gets lost in a crowd here.

Because the household is small, the women living in it become a real household. They cook together, clean together, study together, and learn to work through the ordinary friction of sharing a home. That friction turns out to be part of the growth. Learning to handle conflict, ask for help, and serve someone else is a lot of what recovery actually is.


A Typical Weekday

Every day has a rhythm. Here is what a normal weekday looks like:

Time

What happens

7:00 AM

Wake up, shower, get ready, and have breakfast

9:00 AM

Morning devotions

Late morning (until 11:00)

Classwork: self-study, a class, a book study, or a group book study

11:00 AM

The women prepare lunch together, then clean up

1:00 – 3:00 PM

A second block of classwork

Mid-afternoon

Free time and a break

Around 5:00 PM

Dinner

Evening

Varies by night (see below)

 

That rhythm is intentional. Many women arrive after months or years where days had no shape at all, where sleep, meals, and responsibilities were all driven by the next crisis. A steady, predictable day gives the mind and body room to settle, and it gives each woman daily practice at being faithful in small things.


Evenings, Weekends, and Sundays

Evenings look different from night to night. Some nights are quiet. On others, a volunteer comes over to spend time with the women, or a church group brings in dinner and shares a meal with the house. Wednesday nights are Bible study, and every so often there's a special event.

Those evening visitors matter more than they might seem. They show the women that ordinary Christians care about them and want to know them. Many of those relationships continue long after graduation.


On Sundays, the women attend worship together at a local church, with a volunteer or staff member taking them each week. Becoming part of a local church body, not just a program, is one of the most important habits a woman can build here.


Who Is in the House

The house is covered 24 hours a day. Staff are on site from 9:00 AM to 5:00 PM, and trained volunteers cover every night of the week from 5:00 PM until 9:00 the next morning, along with the weekends. There is always someone in the home.

For a lot of families, this is the question that matters most, and it's a fair one. Your daughter, sister, or friend will not be left on her own.


The First 90 Days

The first three months are the most protected season of the program:

•      Cell phones: there is a 90-day blackout on personal cell phones.

•      Phone calls: there are no phone calls for the first two weeks. After that, residents can use the house phone a couple of times a week.

•      Mothers of young children: if you have young children, we make sure you can stay in contact with them, including during those first two weeks.

•      Passes and visitors: there are no visitor passes during the first 90 days.

•      Email: every resident receives her own personal throughthegate.org email address when she arrives, so she has a safe way to stay in touch.

 

We know that can sound hard, especially to a mom who wants to hear her daughter's voice. But those first months are when old contacts, old habits, and old temptations pull hardest. Scripture describes change as putting off the old way of life and putting on the new (Ephesians 4:22–24). That can't happen if the old life is still buzzing in your pocket all day. The quiet of the first 90 days makes room for new habits, new relationships, and a new way of thinking to take root.


What Makes It Faith-Based

Through the Gate is a residential recovery program that uses biblical counseling as its approach. We believe God's Word gives us everything we need for life and godliness (2 Peter 1:3), so we don't treat Scripture as a supplement to another method. It is the method.

Our counselors are trained through the Association of Certified Biblical Counselors (ACBC) and commissioned through The Addiction Connection, founded by Dr. Mark Shaw. In counseling, the goal isn't simply to stop a behavior. It's to look honestly at what the heart has been serving and trusting, and to rebuild a life around Christ instead. Sobriety matters, but it grows out of that deeper change.

For a fuller walk-through of how faith-based recovery works, see our complete guide to faith-based rehab for women.


Cost and Who Can Come

Item

Details

Intake fee

$200

Monthly cost

$360

Scholarships

Available depending on fund availability

Insurance

Not accepted (we also do not accept Indiana Recovery Works funding)

Who can apply

Women from anywhere in the United States

 

You don't have to live in Indiana to come here. Roughly a third to half of our residents come from out of state. For many women, getting away from home is part of what makes a fresh start possible.


After Graduation

Finishing the program isn't the end of the relationship. Selected graduates are offered an internship, working at Through the Gate and sometimes with CFC Cleaners, the nonprofit cleaning company that helps fund our ministry. Transitional housing is also available on a case-by-case basis for women who need a bridge between the program and independent life.

By our own internal tracking, about 72–78% of our graduates do not return to their former lifestyle. Every one of those numbers is a woman with a name and a story.

You can read one of those stories from one of our 2019 graduates. She tells it far better than we could.


Frequently Asked Questions

Is Through the Gate a halfway house?

Not in the traditional sense. A halfway house usually offers housing while residents work outside jobs. Through the Gate is a full residential recovery program with a structured daily schedule, biblical counseling, and no outside employment during the program.

How long does the program last?

The program lasts at least eight months, and a woman can stay longer if she needs to.

Can I have my phone?

Not during the first 90 days. After the first two weeks, residents can make a couple of calls a week on the house phone, and each woman has her own throughthegate.org email address. Mothers of young children are able to stay in contact with their kids from the start.

Is someone there at night?

Yes. Staff are on site during the day, and volunteers cover every night and weekend, so the house is covered around the clock.

Do I have to be from Indiana?

No. We accept women from anywhere in the United States.

How much does it cost?

There is a $200 intake fee and a monthly cost of $360. Scholarships are available depending on fund availability. We do not accept insurance.


Take the Next Step

If you're looking for a halfway house for yourself or for someone you love, and what you really want is a place where a woman can be known, be loved, and be changed by the truth of God's Word, we'd love to talk with you.

Visit our Get Help page to start an application or reach out with questions. You don't need to have everything figured out before you call.

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